In the heart of South Dakota lies St. Joseph’s Indian School, a school dedicated to empowering Lakota (Sioux) children and families for life — mind, body, heart and spirit. Among its most steadfast supporters are Robert and Yolanda, a couple whose commitment to St. Joseph’s spans more than seven decades! Their journey of generosity is a testament to the transformative power of empathy and faith.
Early Beginnings
For Yolanda, her journey with St. Joseph’s began in her teenage years. While not many teenagers are quick to offer what little they have to others, she was inspired by Native American history and her brother’s experiences out West. Her family’s pioneer roots in Montana also fostered a deep sense of connection and responsibility.
“I felt such empathy for the children because of how badly their ancestors were treated,” said Yolanda, remarking that she could not help but give what she could.
Robert’s journey began after he received information from St. Joseph’s through the mail. Taking heed from his soon-to-be bride, Robert started giving to St. Joseph’s shortly before the couple took their vows in 1955. What started as sporadic donations evolved as he witnessed the school’s meaningful work firsthand on a trip in the late 1990s.
“I was taking our daughter to school in Montana, and I thought I’d stop by to see where my donations were going,” recalls Robert. “I was so impressed that, when I got home, I started preparing to give monthly and increased the amount.”
This trip, and the several others they have made over their decades of giving, were pivotal moments in Robert and Yolanda’s relationship with St. Joseph’s. Seeing the school in action solidified their trust and ignited a curiosity to learn more. They’ve attended powwows, met staff and observed the goodness taking place on campus and beyond. Yolanda and Robert are now proud members of St. Joseph’s monthly giving club, DreamMakers.
“St. Joseph’s has been our number one favorite from the beginning,” Robert proudly shared.
Motivated by Empathy and Faith
Over the years, Robert and Yolanda’s commitment to the Lakota children grew stronger and not just because of all the great things happening at St. Joseph’s. They visited Pine Ridge and witnessed the site of the Wounded Knee Massacre. They also made stops at other prominent Native American landmarks. These experiences helped deepen their understanding of the challenges Native American communities face.
As strong Catholics, they believe in sharing their blessings by giving generously to St. Joseph’s and other charitable organizations.
“If you have enough, why not help others?” Robert asks, echoing their philosophy of giving.
Of course, an internal need to help others, especially children, runs deep in their hearts.
“Native American children deserve to have a good start in life,” said Yolanda. “St. Joseph’s is special in this way. They are helping children with their work.”
Looking to the Future
Now, as they prepare to celebrate their 70th wedding anniversary, the couple has made plans to celebrate in a very special way … They are coming to the 2025 St. Joseph’s Indian School Powwow! Robert and Yolanda are bringing their family, including their children and their children’s spouses, for a grand total of 10, to enjoy their anniversary in this impactful way.
“I thought, why have a party here when we can go to the powwow?” said Robert.
While it won’t be their first St. Joseph’s powwow, it will be for many of their family members registered to attend. Yolanda and Robert can’t wait to show their family in-person why St. Joseph’s is so special. For them, the powwow is not just an event — it’s a symbol of hope and resilience for Native American people.
A Message to Others
When asked what advice they would give to prospective donors, Yolanda encourages others to do their research and witness St. Joseph’s incredible work firsthand.
“Do your research and see the good St. Joseph’s is doing,” she suggested. “Then have a vacation and see it for yourself!”
For Robert and Yolanda, St. Joseph’s Indian School isn’t just a school — it’s a beacon of hope. It’s a place where compassion and commitment come together to create a brighter future for Native American children.
“The young are the future,” Robert reflected, “and St. Joseph’s is investing in that future.”
Visit stjo.org today to learn more about how you can help provide life-changing programs and services to Lakota children.
Happy 70th wedding anniversary to this wonderful couple! What an inspiring example they are to others. God bless them and their family as they attend the Powwow this year.