When a Pillow Means so Much More

To send the perfect message to someone you love, all you need is a pillowcase and a pen.

Sometimes a few words can send a big message.

When parents and guardians drop their children off at St. Joseph’s Indian School at the start of every school year, we have pillowcases and pens ready.

Pillowcases and pens? Seems like a strange combination, right?

However, it’s the perfect combination for parents to write heartfelt messages on their children’s pillow cases, something to comfort them each night. That way, if a child is homesick or needs a couple more ounces of love after a long day, they can squeeze their pillow with personal messages in the handwriting of the person they love the most.

Messages like this one …

“Hi, baby! I love you and I’ll miss you every day. You be good and have fun!”

This year, the pillowcases mean even more. St. Joseph’s has had to limit student getting checkouts from campus in response to COVID-19. We’ve created a bubble of health and we do our best to maintain that by limiting outside exposure to our students and staff. It’s not been easy, but everyone understands it’s in effort to keep everyone as safe as possible.

A note on this pillowcase to a parent reads, “I love you so much, and you make me so happy and make me feel better.”

Pillowcases for Parents

Children aren’t the only people who miss their loved ones, so that’s why we did a little something …  a little something to show parents and guardians just how much the kids miss and love them.

We got more pillowcases and pens. Only this time, the kids wielded the pens and wrote notes to their moms, dads, grandmas — anyone who holds a piece of their heart and needed a message. They also drew pictures if they couldn’t find the right words.

“I miss you, Mom! I love you and I will see you soon!”

A child sent virtual hugs and kisses with this pillowcase and wrote, “I love you a whole bunch,” to go along with their colorful drawings of a horse, hearts and stars.
This pillowcase featured a drawing of a bear with the message, “I love and miss all of you.”

Staff carefully mailed the pillowcases home as a surprise. Now as students get tucked in with their personalized pillow, their family members in reservations and communities in the far reaches of the state can do the same.

Sometimes, it’s the little things like this that make hard times bearable. Sometimes, a pillow that reminds you of your mom, your dad, your grandma or grandpa is just what you need in that moment.

Other small items were sent home with the pillowcases, such as these beaded necklaces.

Philámayayethank you — to all the donors around the world who continue to help St. Joseph’s Indian School remain a safe place for Native American children to live, learn and grow. Also, to parents for entrusting us with their care. Doing this blessed work is so important, and we are grateful.

Author: St. Joseph's Indian School

At St. Joseph's Indian School, our privately-funded programs for Lakota (Sioux) children in need have evolved over 90 years of family partnership, experience and education. Because of generous friends who share tax-deductible donations, Native American youth receive a safe, stable home life; individual counseling and guidance; carefully planned curriculum based on Lakota culture and individual student needs and tools to help build confidence, boost self-esteem and improve cultural awareness. All of this helps children to live a bright, productive, possibility-filled future.

2 thoughts on “When a Pillow Means so Much More”

  1. This is a wonderful idea…especially since it can be done “both ways”! Everyone can use a special pillowcase..

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